Nearly half old man in our country passes the life of empty nest Life quality is relatively low

Nearly half old man in our country passes the life of empty nest Life quality is relatively low
Nearly half old man in our country passes the life of empty nest Life quality is relatively low
One day, we will always go at last. It is difficult to look into the distance, what " old age " is that ? Analyze from population structure and age level, the future which we face has not not merely " rich and old first " ,Still mostly " The old and empty nest " ,And grow in intensity. The statistics show, Shanghai is by the end of last year, there are 922,100 empty nest old men in all, account for 29.2% of the total number of the elderly of population of household register, solitary old man 188,700 among them. And in the old man, half passes by " empty nest " in the whole country 167,000,060 Life does not live with children together, or there are no children. Empty nest old man, how to spend every day in old age? Clothing, food, shelter and transportation, amusement, they have any difficulty, what help is needed? The reporter made investigation in Shanghai recently. Daily life it eats three meals a day to be difficult problem should to " don't ask the intersection of I and Cheng to be old at the disease, I am not very old " ,Cheng builds and tows an unable leg, come over to open the door. This year, he is 71 years old, is the sixth year when the empty nest lives alone for him too. This is a husband room after sale on the road of Quyang, the room is old, the indoor net space is small, the light is insufficient. A serious disease at the age of 10, Cheng builds the limb incompletely and drops out of school, and then teach oneself to get to the junior college, enter one industrial research institute in Shanghai and obtain employment to retire, but not got married all the time. Cheng Jian is the eldest, live together with 5 persons of brother and sister for a long time. The sister in law gets married successively to help Cheng Jian to purchase this room and live alone in 2004 after the independence. " can not cook at all, it is my greatest problem " Lao Cheng is given the dish by brother and sister, one's own electric cooker steamed rice. Younger brother's younger sister take turns, give dish two times in one week. Turn on refrigerator, a big basin of meals, several plastics keep fresh box, have beef, chicken leg, spiced eggs, duck's leg, also there are lotus root man, green vegetables, dried bean curd, dried radish, it is the meal for three or four days. " meal microwave oven " Twice-cooked stir-frying " Heat, even if is unfresh, the vegetables are eaten for a few days. " Once in a while, Lao Cheng goes to eat the hand-pulled noodles of 0.1 kilograms of beef in the street too, or at 11 o'clock at noon, go community help meal have a meal, go getting late, ability to move around line up too tired agilely. The money rain auntie living in the area of residents committee of Bahrain compared with old man of Cheng Jian has although already 83 years old, fairly cook " Agile " : In the small pan on the gas range, the stewed snake butter cauliflower of small sparerib, it is noon of one day, dinner. " go to buy vegetables every afternoon, the pickles were the cheapest at that time " ,However, she admits, " the brain rotated and has not often moved " ,It is often the time cooking, what is thought of lacking, walk up to refrigerator outside the kitchen door, turn on the refrigerator, but can not remember what is gone to do. Eat three meals a day, have date at home of children, it is the sumptuous cooked food mostly, following the happy laughters and cheerful voices of reunioning; " empty nest " Day,it is always dinner leftovers,it leave alone swallow. Seek medical advice in disease, more greatest difficult thing. Auntie Qian bears in mind constantly, the spouse will suffer from the brain and block up in 2008, she is helpless and without resourcesly anxious, it is the cadre of the residents committee of Bahrain that calls the ambulance, help them to pay for the medical fee first, still take the quilt keeping out the cold. The daughter has not taken care of the person that accompanied by the old folks as far back as Canada, once have illness coming on, reply reluctantly. The leg aches, can not walk, in addition, Lao Cheng is roughly healthy. " the emotion of younger sister of younger brother and I is very good, they often phone to chat with me " . "What is expected to having afterwards? I hope oneself is healthy, it is too many not to need and trouble them " . Amusement The computer had not unsealed for a few years " Sit down idly " Also regarded as and done time the rain auntie of the money and lived on the 11th floor, in the small sitting room, the striking one is that the spouse who passed away two years ago offered as a gift and shone. In the picture frame, the old gentleman wears the glasses, sight is gentle, seem to be still looking at the wife caring about. "All important things, I put under the glass plate on tea table, desk, will not forget like this " ,Pointing to granddaughter's photo under the glass of tea table, auntie Qian says, " she is my oldest treasure " . Granddaughter, at the age of 5, one go Canada right away. Since hereafter, daughter and granddaughter, can only be the sound and caring for in the overseas call mostly. Auntie Qian is a primary school teacher, year facing disease and the old and feeble octogenarian Die alone, she has not complained, but blame oneself, " liking studying, unwilling exchange " like treating students . ", overseas call, the daughter has bought the phonecard, finish numbers, I do not send over, wait for them to hit over; The digital TV of renewal of Residential Area, the remote controller is complicated, I can not always bring, the roof box is always ruined for me; The residents committee organizes us to learn to surf the Net, cadre and neighbour invite me several times, I always say, I am old, do not study. " Auntie Qian takes reporter to the bedroom, move out of a carton, " the computer is here " Daughter buy several years ago, hope she learn video chat " launch yet so far! " By the TV cabinet, the daughter is from the family video which Canada mailed, " I have never watched too, can not use the DVD machine. " In the residential block, neighbour coming and going, auntie Qian never greets voluntarily too. " others draw me to dance fan dance, pyrrhic dance, or go to the choir of Residential Area, I say " There is no confidence " ,Have refused. " Usually at home, one " one hundred sing, mind the elderly like song that sing ", auntie Qian in the intersection of window and play sing organ. One, setting-up exercises to music that are practised lots and lots of times as the primary school teacher everyday, shout at home by oneself " 1234 " ," others can not hear, will not laugh at me either " . The only one " Social communication " ,It is probably the Residential Area by the food market, live alone with 3 after retiring the woman teacher plays mahjong once in a while. Recently, Shanghai weather, sombrely, ability to move around more and more inconvenient Cheng Jian old man nearly stay indoor. Hear the storytelling and ballad singing, watch TV, hot " meal of twice-cooked stir-frying " two times Two big boxes in the bedside, it was hundreds of records of storytelling and ballad singing tape of Lao Cheng's that held. Two or three boxes and one bundle are pitched carefully, mark information such as storytelling and ballad singing song and player. This is Lao Cheng's greatest amusement. Network world, actually could stay indoors, it is excellent to enjoy the external world to the limit, but to a lot of empty nest old men, but " so near and yet so far " . Lao Cheng have computer too, niece eliminate get off. He learn surf the Net, can play some computer games " interested in very much " . Now, the computer is used for putting the storytelling and ballad singing. Qian auntie, will judge by Lao Cheng that be playeding on with can play and singing than,old men solitary that be there is low schoolinged, choose less ways to " sit down idly " a little ,It even may be main too " Amusement " . Cross a row of houses where the way adjoined Suzhou River with boat, it is the building of workers of ten factories of original upper steel, sits there in several small stools, putting the old rattan chair at the gate of Residential Area for a long time, Third Five-Year Plan Period of old man retiring one, look at people, speak, stare flankly. Similar scene, the grown-ups and children district with close relation in the neighbourhood, very general. Zhou CongJun who lives in a housing district on the road of Anlong of Shanghai, retires for 10 years, home moves first in week Enter one of the households of this Residential Area. Over the past 10 years, the neighbour has often seen Lao Zhou sat in entrance guard's room, thought Lao Zhou was " person in charge of logistics corporation " . ? Lao extensive ���� exposes one's misdeeds or crimes and grants a 0th disease of sea �� of the sixth of the twelve Earthly Branches of Na of � Qian's beak �� Does �� Quan �ææ�'s morality take on �� and rob acenaphthene now and carve Lan Nao She's sheng ��? The apt ill low psychological research institute of Chinese Academy of Social Sciences of life quality of empty nest of the hard to get along with physiological psychology has surveyed more than 2000 old families, compare with the life state of empty nest and non- empty nest old man. They find, solitary group, couple live together the life states of the group, non- empty nest group really have obvious differences. Only if empty nest old man, may think the house work or third generation of treatment pays more, high pressure of the health. Solitary old man, will feel boring, by " sit down idly " Relatively more for people of the main fact. The old man of solitary group appears " The lonely mood " Proportion,also not notably it higher than other two groups. Do empty nest old man and psychological health and subjective happiness sense of the non- empty nest old man have anything different? Last year, mental hygiene centre of Huangpu district of Shanghai, Zhou RongShan, Pan ZhongDe, Xie Bin, Cai Jun of the subsidiary mental hygiene centre of Shanghai Communications University medical college,et al. have carried on social investigation to this. Contrasting revealing, general health status, physiology, emotion of the empty nest old man,etc. are assessed and is obviously lower than the non- empty nest old man of a series of scale. " empty nest old man's life quality is relatively low " ,Its report points out: 7.8% of the empty nest old men have anxious mood, the non- empty nest is 2.7% alone of old man; 15.6% of the empty nest old men have depressed mood, the non- empty nest is 9.4% alone of old man. This reveals empty nest old man has a psychological problem in various degree, the subjective happiness sense is obviously lower than the non- empty nest old man. "Around, lose the corresponding society supporting and emotion communication target because of children, often feel lonely and lonely, doubt one's own existence value, it is apt to fall into the barren, helpless state, these negative mood exists for a long time, it is apt to initiate syndrome of empty nest. " Relevant experts point out. According to the analysis of the survey report, syndrome of empty nest can cause the disorder of the endocrine, nerve centre, decline of immunological function, exchange diseases such as kindling or aggravating coronary heart disease, hypertension, bronchus asthma, stomach and duodenal ulcer,etc.. Some empty nest old men are apt to suffer from senile dementia. In addition, the psychological health is apt to go wrong. How to help the empty nest old man to solve the body-mind problem, need to cause the attention of the family, society, government. " auntie Qian, how are you today the outlet is cared about neighbourhood to give the warm voluntary service to start? " Afternoon, the intersection of hair and auntie of the fifth floor come auntie of money rain house. Auntie Mao is 69 years old this year, the body is fairly hale and hearty, she is Hongkou district " heart garden of shine clouds " of committee for the study of problems of the aged A member of the old wish service team. It is auntie Qian to form to helping the target. Spouse, auntie of hair, pass away, son around, live alone. " it is right to look after, we will all be old " ,Hair auntie come every day, if which day go out, exhort the intersection of house and old old Mr. and Mrs. next door Qian, " help to listen to the sound of auntie Qian's family! " It is reported, many counties of Shanghai all launch in order to always help the meal to serve. The community helps the meal, can solve on the question of meal for the old man. Help services such as the bath, helping medicine,etc., is launching constantly too. Nowadays, " consolation of soul " easy to be neglected in the past ,Also begin to explore to some extent. The healthy old man of low age in the community, the old man that and the old body declines forms correctly, the content is simple and sincere, " go to see them every day " . It is warm to give to some of old men of empty nest, old volunteer, can get and substantiate sense and fulfillment too. Deputy Director of Hongkou district committee for the study of problems of the aged Gong LingLin introduces, the old volunteers of this district form and launch to helping well. From June of 2007, over 13,600 old volunteers begin to enliven in each community of Hongkou. The bunch of old man in the community drops in, chat, it is easy and serving to care about warmly and effectively. It is low to recruit the volunteer of healthy old man of age nearby as much as possible, the resources of fee are little, it is harmonious to still promote the community, neighbourhood. During World Expo 2010 Shanghai, they have also introduced" people of the neighbourhood take and see Expo " Theme activity, yearn for the solitary old men of community of Expo, is forming to under the company which is helping the old volunteer, having gone to view and admire World Horticultural Exposition Garden together, the excellence of Expo, the warmth of the friendly feelings is unforgettable. This year, " heart garden of shine clouds " Volunteer's service team is appraised as Shanghai " The volunteer serves the advanced group " . Old man and 93 -year-old spouse of 96 -year-old Zhu Liang lived in Bahrain Residential Area, all bright old men studied agricultural chemistry in Peking University in early years. Their only daughter lives in U.S.A.. All always 76 -year-old younger sisters, is the treatment of their life person. "I rack one's brains and do something in the old age, provide the elderly with opportunities to enjoy themselves. " All always talk about the life in old age with a smile optimistically. Keep in good health he with skill, writes" the popular science essay, health care of diet " by oneself ,Send relatives and friends' neighbourhood. A part which the old man wrote recently " Coenzymatic Q10 and health care " ,It has already been the 53rd issue. The end is compared oneself to: " the author himself is 96 years old this year, basically belong to " Worn with age " ,But still there is remaining energy I am free to write several popular science essays more, expect can help others! " The aged job cadre Xie MeiLi of the residents committee of Bahrain says, all always return each issue to send to the residents committee, " we are benefited too " .


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