The educationist claims the exam-oriented education excessively influences girl's psychological problem

The educationist claims the exam-oriented education excessively influences girl's psychological problem
The educationist claims the exam-oriented education excessively influences girl's psychological problem
Personages file grandson Yun Xiaos: Famous educationist, Deputy Director, researcher of Chinese teenagers' research center, Chinese teenagers are research association Deputy Chairmans. Cited for the researcher of science of education with outstanding contributions by the State Council in 1999. Dialogue background, several years ago, Sun propose " save boys " by YunXiao and the intersection of Capital Normal University and Li WenDao associate professor,etc. Concept,point out " it is of saving boy be taught sex essence " " ,Give a lot of parents and inspire, and cause educators' sympathetic response. A few days ago, two experts published the article again, proposed " saving girls " Concept,last influence received by brand-new visual angle. Recently, relevant topic, Sun YunXiao accepted the special visit of China Youth News reporter. China Youth News: Under the present structure of education of our country, a lot of people feel the girl has advantages very much, such as girl being more enterprising, study more conscientiously, from primary school to the university, the girls are in the majority in a cadre, and the girl is more obedient, easier to like by parents and teacher. Under this kind of background, why was there " save girls " The saying? Sun YunXiao: Girl's natural instincts are easier and obedienter, accept the norm, think the question is more overall. So, the girl is under the exam-oriented education background, it is easier to make good achievements through making great efforts. If judge, this is a girl's advantage in terms of utility and common customs. But from the viewpoint of cultural and educational care responsible for girl's health, will find this is actually a kind of injury. The survey of more than 1800 high school students of 2009 of Chinese teenagers' research center shows, girls make homework every day and study time and exceed boys after class, 47.4% of the girls of high school do the homework in above two hours every day; 35.1% of the girls should study more than two hourses more every day besides having a class, doing the homework, this proportion is higher than boys; 67.3% girl " want, improve score very much, like efforts for it too " ,This proportion is obviously higher than boys too. Just because of this, the girl does not have enough sleep, the pressure is larger, there are more psychological problems appearing, why important reason why menstruation will become common disease in the campus is this too. China Youth News: Are some physiology, appearance of psychological problem of the girl's with studying the pressure relatively largely and relevantly? Sun YunXiao: Study the high pressure in most important reason. We can say girl pay high cost for study, physically and mentally healthy to influence, and its severity is often underestimated and ignored by the society. According to the physilogical characteristic, the girl should have sufficient sleep, rational sport in development of growing up, but all these are unable to ensure. A terrible one, girl will take in the the pressure, reject family make the intersection of she and abundant suggestion of rest. So, I think girls are the victim of the exam-oriented education, but this is far less than being realized by people. China Youth News: You propose " Save boys " Say, hope boy can male genital, just, have a male speciality, " saved girls " Including the factor of the personality? Sun YunXiao: After the girl enters adolescence, the self-confidence level drops rapidly. First of all, the sex development in adolescence, make the girl very flurried, often become shy and feel self-humiliation. Secondly, the girl begins to especially pay attention to one's own stature appearance, lie in opposite sex's liking oneself. Have, test personnel, divide two into 13 to 17 -year-old girl, first think fashion magazine, one look, group that that see think oneself to be discontended with one's own stature fat after the some time, feel unworthy. In addition, the girl is apt to be obedient, regard adult's standard as the standard, but the exam-oriented education emphasizes that obedient, it has further weakened the girl's independence. Go from physiology to the psychology and then to personality, the exam-oriented education lets girls receive overall influence. China Youth News: You while educating one's own daughter, how make it receive the excessive influence of the exam-oriented education while being less likely? Sun YunXiao: I hope she can have self-confidence and independence, the choice respecting her in thing. Small enter for the first time, one teach characteristic school of Japanese whether even focal point in the district is not at daughter think. Her mother is that Peking University Japanese department graduated from, firm opposition, thought the outlet will be very narrow in the future. I have supported the daughter's choice. Live very happily in the daughter's time of middle school of 6, has received the Japanese students of the four groups of the people constellation at home, my daughter has two summer vacations to go to constellation of the people of Japan too. This has trained her independence, self-confidence and international visual field. Later, she was admitted to sociology department of Fudan University, nowadays, realized reporter's dream, accredited in Japan by China News Service and worked as a reporter. China Youth News: At critical stage that the girl grows up, how to help them? Sun YunXiao: While preparing for the college entrance examination, I say to the daughter, the universities and colleges of undergraduate course can not be admitted to, so long as can be admitted to the junior college, can also upgrade from junior college student to university student in the future, can become a useful person equally. I still help her to select two junior colleges conscientiously. Tactics and sincere advice of me that don't give child too large pressure, let child face the question while entering a higher school and working happy while being light. The university that my daughter dreams of is Fudan University, but made preparation for going to the two (or-three)-year-term college to study too. As a result, because psychology relax, the intersection of college entrance examination and than imitate the marks of the examination higher 100 achievement of her, play beyond praise. In addition, except learning to swim, any continuation classes and interest classes at the primary school, middle school stage of my daughter. China Youth News: Can parents' positive guide reduce the negative impact on girl of the exam-oriented education? Sun YunXiao: Parents are persons who grow up and guide of children, home environment is with great influence on child. Before 6 years old, parents can set up the intimate one with the child in accordance with the love sense, concern child's sense of safety and happiness sense of all one's life. Is it on intimate terms that any let? Just give children more understanding and support. In addition, don't let so many class after class at the child, want, lead girl to watch a little more lightly in that school receives setback. Parents should act as the bearing. China Youth News: In daily life, which can parents have for what the child do? Sun YunXiao: The girl of today, why are there a lot of sex questions? For example calf love and emergence sexual behavior too early. A question is especially worth putting forward, girl's demand for emotion communication is very high, our parents and teacher often neglect such strong demand. The study way in which the girl is good at is the language education, chats and reads, the girl needs to chat very much, need nutriment of emotion, exchange of spirit, need the kissing and embracing of parents. But for the moment, these demands of a lot of girls' can not be satisfied. The girl that we had once had the sexual behavior to 18 middle schools carries on deep interview, ask what she wants to get, it is very warm that they say the feeling embraced with the opposite sex together. So, parentses must embrace more Caress children, many and the child has a heart-to-heart talk. (laurel is outstanding)


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