Endless miss Endless wealth (Fig.)

Endless miss Endless wealth (Fig.)
Endless miss Endless wealth (Fig.)
Ma QingJun's daughter Ma WenTao gives a report. Zhang Zheng takes a photograph of every leader particularly, dear friends: Hello! My name is Ma WenTao. It is doctor Ma QingJun's daughter. Thank the leaders at all levels for holding such a public lecture for my father, and give me a chance of speech, recall my father with everybody. 56 years ago, father was born in a small mountain village in the county in Linqu the foot of Yi Mengshan of Shandong. Father growing up in the countryside, has worked as peasants, has done the farm work, the hardships of life have tempered his will. The grandfather is a school physician of the local middle school, influenced by grandfather, father resolved to become a doctor curing the sickness to save the patient while as a child, later on he realized one's own ideal at last. Father has a deep emotion on villager. The day coming back home to celebrate the New Year every year, it is his time to come back home to volunteer medical consultation too. Not been often reached yet by our, there are patients in the family to wait. Mother hopes to let father have a rest first after getting home, let these persons seeing the doctor come late. Father always says " nothing serious and nothing serious, finish seeing and have a rest, do not use a long time either " . The person seeing the doctor sits in the sitting room of grandfather's home, father explains the condition patiently for them one by one. I see a lot of people morose come in among them, the leaving that covered with smiles. It is one morning to often see, there is not father's time to even drink the saliva. On last the Spring Festival, father has been already ill, had learnt that there is a patient seriously ill and unable to leave the bed to walk, he lets me bring him to handle patient's disease to the doorstep by car, finishes and returns the comfort patient: "Disease of yours, it would be better if did an operation, needn't be afraid. " On the Spring Festival of 2008, I will return to homeland and hold the wedding with my darling, when we are returning to Beijing by car excitedly, father has put him through to the telephone which university classmates made, say their hospital has accepted an emergency case, already been paralysed, they can not do, ask this highly difficult operation whether he could help. Father changes its course and drives the car to that hospital at once without demur. After he has been connected and has entered the operating room, we and mother sit and wait in the car. It was very cold that day, all snow everywhere, then went to a nearby store to get warm, originally just thought etc. for a moment. I had never expected, fully a whole day, until it being dark he did not come out, the operation fathers of a dozen hours were all pooped out, so hard as to have not strength at all, is commanding me to drive, I do not recognize the way, did not find the entry to the expressway around half a day, by at midnight all sooned. We blame him on the road, but father says: "The patient is very young, you have only delayed one day, but he wants to delay settling is a thing all one's life. " Father is a warmheartedness, very ready to help others. Mother has told me the story of the salary bill. After marriage, when mother gets father's salary bill of the first month, write " debts " above but impressively Two words. There was a poor peasant in hospital originally, because can not afford to pay the medical fee of 69 yuan was unable to leave hospital, father pays first for him voluntarily. But his salary of one month is more than 40 yuan, so marked out on the salary bill, the remaining sum will continue deducting next month. Mother says, she thought at that time, could bring so much money quickly to help the patient not acquainted with each other, this person is very kind, worth entrusting. My home lives near the courtyard of north medicine three, often a patient finds home gate to require fathers to handle their disease through various routes. Only father is at home, no matter he is having a meal, or having a rest, he never refuses. Whenever father is when home handles patient's disease, I like hearing aside very much, though I do not know medical science, however, his easy-to-understand explanation, what the vivid metaphor let people listen to is with relish. He always wants to try the way best to let the patient understand, find out about one's own condition, the healing solution offered is to explain all pros and cons risks absolutely clearly too. Sometimes, draw, explain, most patients go back with satisfaction. It by some patient wonder whether why be understand,father always tirelessly each all over explain patient. After the patient leaves, I ask father: "Whether you are irritated. " Father says with a smile: "Others let us see the doctor, that thinks highly of us, believe in us, we must let this trust down. " In order to live up to this trust, father nearly has little time for oneself. Still read, consult the materials at home in the unit in a busy one day and the evening in the daytime. Whenever after he has done a very successful operation, it is always the very excited sharing his happiness with us. From his speech, experience vividly he loves that share of the work, he is working hard in our view, but he enjoys the course of the work very much, enjoys this sense of achievement brought by work. Father likes studying, it is one that has a liking for the person substantially as ordering of book, family is all his books everywhere. He goes to U.S.A. to receive a training back, mother and I go to the airport to meet him, see he is taking two big heavy cases, thought that was a gift for us, the excited opening the case after went home, but disappointed discovery inside is all books. I help him to put materials of these books in order gloomily, he but the excited one is told mother like treasure: "All these are good things, it is the materials that can not read at home, need in the work. I have bought the book that can be bought, I that can not buy copy. Look, so many! " He not only buys the book for oneself also often choose various applicable study materials for us, the purpose is to let us form the good reading habit. On October 9, 2008, the never sick father fainted in the operating room suddenly in my memory, liver tumour breaks, diagnose as hepatocarcinoma. This news comes, like the bolt from the blue, our whole family are all stupefied. However, from the calm accepting this reality of father waking up in the stupor. After the first operation, what his state of mind resumes is good, he gets up at 5 o'clock every morning as usual, read, write the book, criticize the thesis to change the manuscript at home for students. At the beginning of 2009, he will begin chemotherapy, will present various side effects: Disgusting and vomiting, losing the appetite, suffering from diarrhoea. And then, the hair is lossed in a large amount, the most serious one is that four limbs, trick abscess bubble, run the things, it is all a problem to walk. Hepatocarcinoma and pain of later period are very violent, often see father uses hands according to the belly, the forehead is emitting the cold sweat. As family, we can only helplessly look, but can't share a silk agony for him. Father, like TV play that watch most with him " bright the intersection of sword and " the the intersection of protagonist and Li YunLong a word that speak of inside " come into unavoidable confrontation brave person win! " Comfort comes, we. After will it be June 1 this year he again in hospital, find cancer cell spread in the liver in an all-round way, the condition has been already uncontrollable. He goes from bad to worse, still can leave the bed and walk at the beginning, can only later on lie, it is not all right to even stand up finally. We ask him: "Do you feel a pain? " He say, feel a pain always, have one demand, let person that stay in the ward to look after the patient night and day ceaselessly Use a fan for him. Mother says actually he feels a pain very much, using a fan can disperse his attention. Even so, whenever someone comes to visit him, he always says: "I am pretty good, you are busy. " During that last period of time of father's life, he is calm in the face of this topic of the death, he says: "Like taking the car in life, you may not get off until terminal, I get off only ahead of time. " He, on one's deathbed, it was his work that was said most, exhorted Corey's comrade, must compile and finish " backbone surgery ", and give storing U one that he compiled the good manuscript to the colleague. And tell me, leave book and materials of the family to his students, let them select at will, so long as think the useful one all let them take away, he believes these materials will be helpful to students. The last a word left me " lives a better life, work hard " ,Say that " don't do pointless rescue again to the medical personnel who rescues him, thank you! " It is 45 past 1 before dawn on July 17, 2010, father is eternal to leave us. I, in order to have such a father who feel proud of. He treats everyone around sincerely, regards patient as relatives. He puts into the undertaking that oneself loves wholeheartedly, has neither enmity nor repentance. As a doctor, he knows very well cancer is terrible, but calm in the face of. As learning one's own life is limited, does not give oneself up as hopeless, does not moan and groan, face actively, treat scientifically, does not fall into disuse for an inch of time. Though father walks, can't see the smile that he is familiar with every day, hear the voice of his love, but the enormous spiritual wealth which he left, is enriching our soul. " grow like summer flower magnificently and die like autumn leaf quietly and beautifully " ,This is father's portrayal in all one's life. Thank you!


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