Teach six children " The life skill " Avoid spiritual disease

Teach six children " The life skill " Avoid spiritual disease
Teach six children " The life skill " Avoid spiritual disease
World Health Organization proposes parents, teacher and all personages who care about children teenagers, help them to study and know the life skill hard. The so-called here " The life skill " Do not mean doing washing, cooking, putting internal affairs,etc. in order " Survive " Ability, and refer to a person's social ability of psychology. Can describe as the following aspects specifically: 1, Find out about one's own characteristic, train often unidentified one's own strong point and weakness of teenagers of some children of self- cognitive ability, some children more just see one's own shortcoming, produce and feel self-humiliation the psychology. Let them know how to comment on oneself objectively, develop the strong point, the non- overcritical thing not doing by oneself. 2,The society listens attentively to and expresses, train good people skills to listen attentively to others' talking and opinion conscientiously, use the appropriate language to exchange with others and communicate ideas, this kind is " heard" With " say " Skill human communication important link. Close one's ears to, it is apt to close oneself in a piece of one's own little world, it is unsociable and eccentric and depressed to cause, or go to extremes stubbornly. 3,Know mood, learn teenagers, children of ability, to relieve pressure will adjust, control mood form worried while meeting difficulty, and long-term mood inhibits the foundation that is a spiritual disease. So, should educate them to learn to lead off and relax, keep the psychology balanced. 4,Understand that supports others, train replacement to think ability is in the only-child's family, some children often only care about one's own study before one's eyes and live, indifferent to him. Should train them to understand what call understanding and love, it was essential since this made friends, train the requirement for the psychological quality of the health especially. 5,Solve the problem effectively, train the adaptibility to response even in very harmonic family, also will meet some contradictions and conflicts. Wonder from what to set about solving the problem, the psychological problem such as being easy to produce and depressed, difficult to pass, panic. So, the ability that should educate and train they to solve the problem, dealing with skill and method. 6,Avoid aggressive words and deeds, train, it contains by oneself to be easy because some minor matters produced friction and contradiction between the teenagers, children of ability, the lighter is on bad terms because of a difference of opinions, the heavy one will act on impulse to scold people, hit the person, satirize and ridicule. So, should train their strict self-containment ability, this is the rules of conduct, also the basic demand that the psychological quality of the health formed.


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