It is one kind of burdens for child to be early-maturing

It is one kind of burdens for child to be early-maturing
It is one kind of burdens for child to be early-maturing
"My son is 7 years old this year, it is rhythmical to speak and do things, what top, racing-cycle the children of the same age are all playing with, he says inmaturely, buys toys and does not need either for him, the clothes with cartoon pattern are not worn either. If choose between cartoon and TV play which some adults watched, it is not a cartoon definitely. Seem to seem to let parents save worry very much, but he is still a child after all! " --Have watched a TV programme in a mother's worries. In break, lively children play and play together, but a little boy falls widowedly joyously. Ask why he does not play with everybody, he says, the thing which children play, it is dull. In fact, this child is just 9 years old, not introversive. Ask what he likes, he says he likes some sad things, once of some sad concerts, all over hearing, like " leave Kang Qiao again " that Xu Zhi rubed very much. The classmates call him " The sad prince " . Child of whom me do not it knows to be should innocent and artless really can bear sad the word in the heart, just talk about children to turn into topic of a little adult, mothers all have fully the same feeling. Very real mother talks about bringing while really really showing off proudly: "My home really very lovely to say the intersection of adult and what, she plays games with me one day, her father comes off duty back, asks what we are doing, she says this is a thing between us women, do not need men to know. " Nanny Tong Tong is very worried to this one: "One day, the child came back talked about a child of her class on TV, also gave a performance. Make it clear that broadcasts time, sit with the child by the television conscientiously. This one variety show of children, four five preside over and honoured guest let one first boy and a girl carry on the love song antiphonal responses, then mutually throw the seductive eyes. I change the channel at once, go to the room nearby drawing the child's hands, the left coaxes right to coax, can be regarded as and shift her attention. To tell the truth, I am very afraid the child follows to study. " Dare to do great mischief, come to describe those children with early-maturing intelligence dailily. A solemn one on the talk, behavior, bearing early-maturing child " The little adult " ,Seem very sensible and clever. Such a child often firmlies get the commendation of ancestors' favor and friends and family, their parents are one's own too " Teach it with the proper method " And proud. In fact, by the look of child, they originally have no consciousness to talk about some adult languages, these language or action imitate exactly from parents, teacher or society in fact to. The child's study mainly depends on imitating, present most children are the only-child, what the family touches are all adults, the target who the child can imitate just grows up, unconsciously, the thought, idea that have been already inculcated in the child's brain with a lot of adults. Moreover, the present adult often no a child is when the child, as the child says some and words of unbecoming age of, parents often laugh very excitedly, report to others ceaselessly. In this way, the child thinks such words is right, thus pay attention to imitating even more. "Come on, one flies. " The adults are bantering the baby just a year old. The baby places fat small hands on the mouth, then wave, the small mouth emits " wave " at the same time One sound. The adults laugh heartily, the baby works with will further, and then someone teaches him how to throw the seductive eyes, sprain the small buttocks. Still once saw a pair of mother and daughter on the street, though the child was just five or six years old, but suspender skirt, chestnut curly hair and white boot as mother. Mother's dress looks like the child, the child's dress looks like adults. Hardly realize, parents regard the child as " little adult " simply ,Will often put forward the too high one, fit for the requirement of the child for the child, will require children with the adult's standard, or inculcate children with too much knowledge not in accordance with child's age and psychological rule of development, the result is to cause children to be too early-maturing. Why give mother a piggyback, smoke father, why quarrel Papa and Mama, these copy need thing that understand young person, he understands, participates in the opinion. Early-maturing on physiology or on psychology, are all a kind of heavy burden for child, let's return innocent and happy natural instincts to the child.


|