Knock at the door way and analyse and explain heart and hide the individual character
Knock at the door way and analyse and explain heart and hide the individual character
Not kindness of Albert and Hera, famous psychologist of U.S.A., has proposed a formula: Result of information interchange =Expression and movement of the language speed +55% of intonation of 7% of the languages +38%. Thus, the ones that will not lie most can be regarded as the body yet. And in the daily visible knock on the door, contain a lot of secrets. "The order of importance and emergency of the movements of people is closely linked with power and controlling of heart strength, knock at intensity, rhythm, time of the door,etc., can reflect a person's personality, mood and expectation at this moment,etc. from the side. " Capital Normal University teaches department that institutes are said by the doctor Yan XiaoFei psychologically. Getting rid of the influence of the eager intensity of the purpose, she divides the knock on the door into three respects to analyze: Say, knock at the sound of the door bright, this kind of people is generally relatively confident, heart strength is strong from intensity. And the intersection of knock on the door and people of ant as small as balance spring, fear, frighten door, relative, more passive, more passive in associating. Sonority of knock on the door relevant with knock at position that door use still, make " the table tennis " with palm door Loud, even the Chinese boxing is added, this person either comes to seek hatred or fight, or count on the wealth tendency, occupy a commanding position, look down upon the house owner. From knocking at the length of time of the door and saying, the house owner insists on striking for a long time when not replying, this person's general willpower is strong, do things and does not roll over and does not scratch, but may be partial to stubbornly and not good at making changes according to specific conditionsing too. Strike two times, stop striking for a period of time again in a period of time, such decayed general attention of person who knocks at door is careful, good at considering various conditions in the external environment, but may encounter the problems that can't be resolved because of pondering over too much too. From rhythm, strike two or three times evenly, this person generally has good training and habit, in knowing how to contain by oneself very much too at ordinary times and self-control. This kind of situation often appears while asking for help and handling affairs or expressing the compliments too, for example the subordinate comes to knock at the superior's door, or the salesman knocks at the house owner's door, the control on knock on the door is a part of impression management at this moment, have one to will try hard to seem courteous, do not exceed the square. And the extremely intimate person would not be so, for example not knock at the door in the door where a lot of people push the companion open. Another kind of people, can strike out and take " spend " , tone cheerful " The drumbeat " ,This kind of people basically belongs to the optimist. In addition, the knock on the door is so slow, strikes for two times as to stop, the person who knocks at door may be tired out or more depressed. According to " psychological monthly magazine "
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